"You can't please everybody."
Sabi ng iba, masungit ka. Sabi rin nila na wala kang magagawa, na hindi mo kaya. Sabi nila, wala kang mararating at hindi mo kayang umangat. Sabi din nila na hindi ka maganda. Maputi ka lang kaya mo sila nakukuha. Sabi nila, malaki butas ng ilong mo at makapal ang labi mo. Hindi ka maganda o gwapo. Sabi nila, walang seryosong magmamahal sayo dahil sa maruming nakaraan mo.
Iyan ang karaniwang naririnig natin sa iba. Minsan pa nga'y naririnig ng tenga pero tumatagos sa puso. Kapag narinig, ang laki ng epekto sa atin diba?. Una, nawawalan tayo ng self-confidence. Self-confidence na magstand out na marinig ang ating opinyon. Confidence na mag-share ng perspectives natin sa mga bagay. Pangalawa, dahil sa sinasabi ng iba, we're not leaving our comfort zones. We're not discovering something different because we might fail. Dahil sa sinasabi nila, wala ka ng ginawa kundi manatili sa kung anong kaya mo lang gawin. Hindi mo alam meron ka palang ibang kayang gawin, naghihintay lang kung iddiscover mo. Pangatlo, eto ay ang low self-esteem. Dahil sa sinasabi nila, maging ang ating sarili, lalo nating dinodown. Nanggagaling sa ating sarili ang discouragement, ang takot, ang failures and hatred.
Pang-apat, we're being an introvert person. It is Where Shyness rules. Nahihiya tayong makipag-usap. Yung tipong, nageenjoy ka magisa.
But above all this, there's an answer to prevent these. Kala mo ba magtatagumpay ang lahat ng sinasabi nila? No, it's not. We're experiencing these things to remind us that we're weak. We need someone who is greater than us. Who will teach us to let go of these things and that is in Jesus Christ.
Jesus can teach us the art of healing. He'll heal the wounds in our hearts and cast out our fears. (Psalm 147:3) After that, He'll restore you and give you your true identity. Friends, peers and families can comfort us but nothing can beat God's comfort and healing. Try mo minsan kasi based on my experience, 100% Effective siya.
Let go and Let God. "Do what God pleases" is better than "Pleasing everybody"
Stand out and Shine. :)))
God Bless.
-Rajj
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